"To Spouses Who Want to Stop Divorce,
Avoid Heartache, and Save Their Marriage...
But Don't Know How!"

Dear Upset Spouse,

Of course you want a happy marriage. Everyone does.

But does it seem like your marriage is falling apart in front of your eyes? And you don’t know what to do?

Don’t give up. There’s still hope for you even if your spouse:

• Refuses to go to marriage counseling,
• Isn’t “in love” with you any longer,
• Wants a marriage separation,
• Doesn’t know if he or she wants to stay married,
• Has asked for a divorce, or
• Is already living separately from you.

It can feel like the end of the world when a spouse says “I don’t love you anymore” or “I’m leaving.”

Especially if you didn’t see it coming.

You’ve probably found that the announcement impacts every aspect of your life, and now you may be wondering if you can keep your balance.

If you’re like most people in your situation, you’re probably feeling scared and confused, not knowing what to do next. And the truth is you’re not alone. You’ve got plenty of company of others like you who don’t know what to do.

I Can Help You Stop Divorce and Save Your Marriage

For many years I’ve counseled so many spouses like you who’ve been in a similar predicament. And I’ve learned a lot from clients just like you about what works and what doesn’t work in trying to keep a marriage together.

If you’re going to stop divorce, you need to:

Know that there’s always hope that you can save your marriage,

Avoid doing what hurts your relationship,

Know what steps to take that have worked successfully for other couples, and

Take immediate action to stop the downward slide and start moving forward.

Besides my 25 years as a counselor, I think my personal experience also gives me credibility. Through the years, I’ve learned the hard way that “happily-ever-after” endings don’t just happen and that I can’t pin the blame for all marriage problems on my partner.

The truth is, my husband Lee and I sometimes do have disagreements that make us butt heads. But we’ve discovered that the quality of a marriage doesn’t depend on avoiding disagreement.

Instead the excellent quality of our marriage depends on being able to disagree without inflicting permanent damage to the relationship. And it depends on how we recover from conflict between us.

The good news for you is that it’s never too late to change and to decide to do a “makeover” project on yourself. As you change yourself, the ripple effect of the changes will be felt in your marriage and in every area of your life.

But you have to take the first step before anything different can happen. And I want you to have what Lee and I have found to be attainable — a marriage of mutual respect, laughter, love and passion. A soul connection.

You can have it too. All you do is follow a simple system that I’ll show you.

You probably weren’t taught positive marriage-building skills in school. If you’re like most people, you’re having to learn on your own.

And there are two main ways people usually learn: by trial and error or by finding out what people who are successful do.

You don’t have time to waste on trial and error attempts to discover what will save your marriage. You need to know what precise steps to take right now to keep your spouse from bolting out of the marriage.