Are you convinced sometimes that your husband or wife makes you mad? I remember feeling that way myself. But it’s just not true, although almost everyone believes it is. What do I mean? I recently wrote this post on Twitter: “Your spouse does not upset you. Rather, you upset yourself believing that your spouse upsets […]
Anger used inappropriately can damage a marriage. Used appropriately, it can establish helpful boundaries in the relationship.
You may have recently read that the Hubble telescope, the most powerful astronomy observation platform in history, is being shut down. After accomplishing its mission beautifully while orbiting the earth for more than 20 years, the Hubble telescope has finally reached the end of its useful life. In the course of two decades it has […]
Return to Part 1–How to Fix Your Marriage After a Fight. If you read Part 1, then you know that conflict in a marriage is a normal result of two different people living together. Unfortunately, if the spouses don’t know how to fight without damaging the relationship, it is usually a reason for the decline […]
Conflict in a marriage is a normal result of two different people living together. Unfortunately, if the spouses don’t know how to fight without damaging the relationship, it is usually a reason for the decline in emotional intimacy between the two partners. And over a period of years, the resulting accumulated cracks in the unhappy marriage […]
Would it surprise you if you found out that a reason you fight with your spouse is that the person you married carries a psychological bag of garbage that matches your bag of garbage? This is the metaphor that author Michael Rice uses in his book Why Is This Happening to Me Again. He says […]